Thursday, December 23, 2010

Christmas Playdate

We had our first official "playdate" today!  Last year, there were 5 of us at my school who were pregnant at the same time.  Interestingly enough, we all ate lunch together and sat at the same table.  Needless to say that by the time the 5th one announced her pregnancy, everyone started avoiding our table.  Ha! 

Unfortunately, our school was split apart this year and we are all at different campuses across the district (except Kimi, who decided to stay home with her kids - lucky!).  So we decided that we would try to get the babies together for what we deemed the "AMS Baby Club" as often as we could.  It took us until Christmas to work out our first one, and it was a blast! 

Okay, so it was mostly for the moms to hang out and just catch up, but we like to believe that the kids has fun too.  We can't wait til they get a little older and actually start playing together.  We have this whole plan for them to be BFF's, but poor Jude drew the short straw - he's the only boy among 4 girls.  Oh well, guess he'll get to take his pick!

This was the best shot we got of all of them.  From left, we have Mollie (4 months), Ada (3 1/2 months), Brooke (2 months), Jude (4 1/2 months), and Macyn (5 1/2 months).  That's a lot of babies all within 3 months of each other!

Friday, December 17, 2010

5-Month Update

I can hardly believe how quickly time is flying!  My sweet girl is growing so fast, learning new things every day.  As exciting as that is, sometimes I just want to grab time by the reins and beg it to slow down.  Here is what you're up to at 5 months:



You're still tall and skinny like always.  You weigh right at 14 pounds.  We haven't officially measured your height this month (how terrible we are!), but I know you're tall because most of your pants rapidly become "capris" (we refuse to call them "highwaters") not long after you grow into them.  We have offically cleaned out all of your 0-3 month clothes, and many of your 3 month clothes as well.  You can still fit into 3 month shirts/onesies, but your pants have to be either 3-6 months or 6 months to fit your legs.  You are wearing a size 1-2 diaper.  You're very close to moving into 2's, but we're not pushing you to get there!

You made a major move this month - sleeping in your own room!  I think it was harder for Mommy and Daddy to get used to it than it was for you.  You barely even noticed the change, and now you seem to love your room.  On a side note, I'm very glad for that because we (i.e. Daddy) put a LOT of hard work into fixing that room up just for you!



Another big milestone was introducing you to baby foods.  So far you've eaten bananas, sweet potatoes, apples, and carrots.  Luckily you've loved each one of them - you've never been a picky eater!  Your favorite has been the bananas.  We've had some setbacks because you've been a sick little girl this month and, when you're sick, you have no interest in food, but we'll be moving on to new items soon. 



You are really becoming an active little girl.  You've got your head control down pat, and you certainly use it to get into everybody's business.  You still love to talk and smile quite a bit.  You are developing such personality, and I can only imagine what's going to come out when you finally make words out of your babbling.  Just a few days ago you let loose this hilarious new giggle.  Daddy and I were in hysterics over it because each time you'd do it, you seemed to laugh at yourself and this new sound, making the whole thing even funnier.  You love to laugh, and you've been trying it out on anyone who will listen.

I truly believe you're beginning to learn your name.  When we talk about you, you perk up and turn your head at the sound of your name, almost as if you're trying to hear what's being said about you.  It also makes you laugh - as just about anything does!  You're also starting to learn who people are.  Of course you recognize Daddy and me, but you're also beginning to recognize other people who are around you much of the time (mostly your family).  You love, love, love your cousins, Brayden and Bailey, who can make you laugh like no one else.  Aunt Shannon seems to have a spell on you, too - we take you to her if we just can't figure you out!  If someone you don't know tries to hold you, you will grab onto me (or whoever is holding you) until you realize it's okay.  Then you become Ms. Social Butterfly!

You like anything that makes noise/music, and you're very good at grabbing.  You now know how to take your binkie out of your mouth and put it back in, which is actually a pretty difficult skill.  You grab at anything and everything that you can reach, and usually that lucky object goes straight to your mouth.  One final milestone this month - you rolled over!  You've always hated to be on your stomach, so one night you did something about it.  We almost missed it you were so quick!  You've only done it one other time since, mostly because I think it scared you when it happened.  Maybe soon you'll realize that it's kinda fun and do it again. 



We love you very  much, sweet Macyn, and we have enjoyed every moment of watching you grow and learn.  It is amazing to witness you changing right before our very eyes.  Each day makes me more grateful that God would entrust you to us.  Can't wait to see where this next month will take us!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

4-Month Update

In trying to follow in the footsteps of my friend, Heather, I am finally jumping on the baby update wagon.  I promise to attempt these once a month, mostly because it will be neat for Macyn to see when she is older (not to mention for me to be able to remember all these things down the road!). 

Macyn, I apologize sincerely for not doing these sooner, but here's what you are up to at 4 months:

You weigh 12 lbs, 13 oz which, I'm learning, is actually smaller for your age than I thought.  You are "tall" and skinny, which  makes your daddy and I wonder where you really came from, seeing as how neither of us can be classified as tall or skinny.  You still wear mostly size 3 month clothing, though there are a few items in the 3-6 month range that don't completely drown you.  I don't mind it, though, because you've got tons of cute fashions to show off before moving on to the next wardrobe.

You eat every 3 hours like clockwork, and you let everyone around know if a mealtime is approaching.  You're eating between 6-8 oz. of formula mixed with a little bit of rice cereal each time.  We also introduced you to a spoon and bowl of cereal when you were about 3 1/2 months.  Let's just say it was fun!  It took you a while to figure out what the spoon was for and what you were supposed to do with the "stuff" on it, but once you got it down, you really loved it.  Now, you get super excited when you see daddy or me bring out the bowl and spoon because you know what's coming.  You're quite a good eater, and no one gets between you and your food!

Thankfully, you sleep for about 7-8 hours every night.  You let me know you're ready for bed by grabbing onto my necklace and burying your head in my chest.  It's your way of saying, "Rock me, Mommy.  I'm sleepy."  You take 2 short naps at school, one long nap at home after school, and are ready for bed between 8:30-9:00.  You sleep in your pack-and-play in our room because we just don't have it in us to put you all the way across the house in your own bed yet.  We've discussed doing this over Thankgiving break, but we'll see if it actually happens.  I love having you right there close to us! 

When you're not sleeping, you have the funniest personality (duh - look who your parents are!).  You literally wake up smiling and don't stop for much of anything.  You're always ready to laugh, "talk", and play, as long as your tummy is full.  What makes you laugh the most is being naked on your changing table with daddy or me tickling or blowing your tummy.  You find this extremely hilarious which, in turn, daddy and I find extremely hilarious.  You smile at anybody who pays attention to you.  Most of the time you'll "talk" back at them, but sometimes you just keep smiling.  You rarely cry because you're too busy smiling - and I am SO grateful for that!  Really the only time you cry is when we force you to do tummy time.  We have invested in several fun tummy time toys, but you're not interested in any of them.  It's hard, but we have to make you do it so your head develops properly.

Your favorite place to be (if not in our laps) is in your ExerSaucer.  You love to push the buttons and dance to the music as you watch it all light up.  You obviously don't understand what it all means, but you love it anyway.  You love anything that lights up or has music.  In fact, another favorite thing to do is watch Dancing with the Stars.  (You used to dance around in my tummy to it while I was still pregnant.)

You have recently discovered how your hands work.  You like to grab toys (or anything nearby) and then practice transferring them back and forth between hands.  Your face crinkles up in concentration as you do this.  When you get it from one hand to the other, your face then lights up with excitement before gearing up to do it again.

These first 4 months have been so much fun, and we're looking forward to watching you grow even more.  We love you very much!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

To Being 30

Well, after failing miserably in my blogging attempt, I'm back.  At least for today anyway.  So, what's been going on since my last post?  I turned the big 3-0!  Yep, yesterday was my 30th birthday and, for all intents and purposes, it was fabulous!  Until yesterday morning I'd been convincing myself of how horrible it would be to turn 30.  Then I woke up and felt like I'd joined some kind of "grown-up club" for people in their 30's (sort of like when Samantha turned 50 on SATC).  I spent most of the day on this high in my own little birthday world.  (Apparently, my kids had one of their worst days, behaviorally speaking, in a long time and I didn't even notice!)  My friends bought me lunch and a chocolate cake, plus I got not one but TWO flower deliveries at work.  Even better than that, my husband surprised me by finding a babysitter (i.e. Grandma) to watch Macyn for a few hours so we could have a birthday date.  He brought me my THIRD bouquet of gorgeous flowers, and we went for a scrumptious dinner at one of favorite cafes - complete with one of my favorite bottles of wine.  All this after I was totally convinced that he'd either forgotten or just didn't care.  Boy was I wrong!

Though I know I have many great things to look forward to in my 30's, I'd like to say goodbye to my 20's and the adventures we've shared for the past decade.  These are some of what I consider to be life-changing events that have helped turn me into who I am today.

20 - My parents got divorced.  Not the best way to start the 20's, but it gets better!
21 - My nephew, Brayden Matthew Guajardo, was born November 7, 2001, just one day before my 21st birthday.  I love him so much!!  2001 was also the year I met my best friends, Candie and Heather, who I also love dearly.
23 - I graduated in December 2003 from East Texas Baptist University with a degree in Human Relations.  I moved back to Houston and began working for a jewelry company with my sister.
24 - Began working for The Bair Foundation and met many more friends, including my almost twin, Amy!
25 - Moved to TBF Dallas, lived with Heather, and met my future husband, Ross.
26 - Moved back to Angleton to start my teaching career with 5th graders.  Also began coaching high school soccer.  Most importantly, I got engaged to Ross this year!
27 - Married Ross (actually RIGHT before I turned 27, so I'm counting it) and bought our house.  We also adopted our first "child," Beaux. 
28 - Cooper joined the family!
29 - Discovered I was pregnant with our first child in November.  Macyn Renee Melancon was born July 11, 2010.  She is absolutely the perfect ending to my 20's, and perhaps the thing that makes being 30 not-so-bad anymore.

Wow - looking at that list makes me realize just how much growing up I did over the last 10 years.  I'm so grateful for the blessings God has granted me thus far, and I can't wait to see what He has in store for me next.  That said, here's to being 30!!!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Mommy Magic

I've decided that some of my favorite moments with Macyn are when she's screaming at the top of her lungs and I'm the only one who can soothe her.  It used to really bother me when she got really upset like that, but it's actually pretty awesome when everyone around has done everything they can think of and then, when I pick her up, everything is all better.  Most of the time I don't even have to do anything but hold her.  I know she can't really see yet, so it's amazing to me that she is able to distinguish me from everyone else.  I've heard she knows my smell and my voice but, no matter how she does it, it's the best feeling in the world to know that she knows me - and that there are times when she just craves being near me.  Don't get me wrong, she loves her Daddy, but sometimes she just needs a little "mommy magic".


 I know as she gets older those times will be few and far between, but I know from my relationship with my own mother that the "mommy magic" never goes away.  I'm a 29-year-old married woman with a child and there are still times when I just want my mommy.  I'm lucky enough to have a mother who understands that, and is also near enough so I can run to her anytime I need her.  Thanks, mom! 

Thursday, September 16, 2010

You Are Good

You Are Good

When the sun starts to rise and I open my eyes
You are good, so good.
In the heat of the day, with each stone that I lay
You are so good.
With every breath I take in
I'll tell you I'm grateful again.
When the moon climbs high, before each kiss goodnight
You are good.

When the road starts to turn around each bend I've learned
You are good, so good.
And when somebody's hand holds me up, helps me stand
You are so good.
With every breath I take in
I'll tell you I'm grateful again.
Cause it's more than enough just to know I am loved
And You are good.

So how can I thank you?
What can I bring?
What can these poor hands lay at the feet of a King?
So I'll sing You a love song.
It's all that I have.
To tell You I'm grateful for holding my life in your hands.

When it's dark and it's cold and I can't feel my soul
You are good, so good.
When the world is gone gray and the rain's here to stay
You are still good.
So with every breath I take in
I'll tell you I'm grateful again.
And the storm may swell, even then it is well
And You are good.

You know the cliche that God always speaks in unexpected ways?  This is a song from my Macyn's bedtime CD that has totally reached out and grabbed me in the last couple of days, particularly the last verse.  I've been having this little (well, not-so-little) pity party for myself lately. I'm dealing with circumstances that are less-than-ideal, and I've totally had a horrible, crummy attitude consuming me.  This song is that much-needed reminder that God is always here and always good!  I'm realizing that he put me in this situation for some reason (hopefully to be revealed soon) and that, even though it isn't what I want, it's good.  It also reminds me that God doesn't expect anything from me other than to just be grateful.  Wow.  In our world of, "You scratch my back, and I'll scratch yours," I have a God who expects nothing other than "Thank You."  How cool is that??


Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Pet Peeves

I get annoyed rather easily.  I used to like to think I was just a laid-back gal who didn't let much "ruffle her feathers."  Recently (if you consider the past 4-5 years "recent") I've discovered that my feathers are, in fact,  blown around quite a bit more than I realized .  I have caught myself saying, "One of my biggest pet peeves is when....." on a regular basis.  Since school started this year, it's pretty much daily.  Perhaps it has to do with the group of students I inherited this year, or the interesting (for lack of a better word) teammate I'm stuck with, or the overbearing parents who just show up in my room and tell me how I'm supposed to do my job.  Go figure.  Anyway, it seems like today has been wrought with annoying "injustices," so I thought I would vent by sharing a few of them.  In no particular order, here are three of my big ones:

1.  Hovering.  I cannot stand it when I'm having a conversation with someone and a third party buzzes around us like a fly at a picnic.  If I am obviously engaged in meangingful (or even pointless) dialogue with somone other than you and you absolutely require my attention at that precise moment, either politely interrupt or just go away until I'm available.  Do not stand there awkwardly, appearing either to be too scared to speak or to eavesdrop on a conversation to which you were not invited.  It is weird, rude, and just plain creepy.  (P.S. - If you decide to interrupt, you had better have a good reason.  I'll just leave it at that.  It's a whole other issue.)

2.  Repeating myself.  I sincerely enjoy talking.  Anyone who knows me will tell you that I could seriously have a conversation with the proverbial brick wall and be thoroughly entertained.  But while I enjoy hearing myself talk, I also believe that what I say is important (or at least worthy of your attention) so, when I say it I expect you to listen.  This is mostly directed toward my students who, even after the 17th time (seriously) I tell them to turn a paper into the appropriate basket when finished still have to ask, "What do I do with it when I'm done?"  Duh.  Not to mention that it's the same basket you've put EVERY single paper you've ever done in my class into.  That's just one example of many that happen daily.  AGH!  I'm sure teachers everywhere feel my pain. 

3.  Excuses.  I now have a sign posted in my classroom that says "Excuse Limit: O."  I just love it when I give my students time in class to finish an assignment, it doesn't get done, so they're assigned to finish it for homework.  Inevitably, they come in the next day with well-rehearsed excuses such as, "I didn't have a pencil" or "I had soccer practice" or (my personal favorite) "My mom threw it away because she thought I didn't need it."  Really, people?!  I'm sure soccer practice took an hour out of the 4 you had after school.  Your homework took 15 minutes - you're telling me you didn't have 15 minutes to do it?  And who is your mom to decide what you need and don't need to keep for school.  Not to mention that YOU knew it was homework and YOU let her throw it away! The funny thing is that it takes them longer to put their excuses together than it does to just do the assignment.   I think I could write a book of excuses my students think up, and this is only my 5th year of teaching.  I can only imagine what's in store in the future.

I'm sure this won't be the end of my ranting on pet peeves.  But while I'm at it, where exactly does the "pet" come from in "pet peeves"?  That's kind of annoying, too.  Til next time......

Monday, September 13, 2010

Hello BlogWorld

Well, I've done it.  I, the epitomy of the technologically non-advanced, have created this blog for no other reason than to write about my family, my interests, my life, my job, my friends..... Hmmmm, is there an underlying theme here?  I'm not sure why anyone in their right mind would care in the least about any of those things, yet here I am! Truth is, my co-best friend Heather (we have a nifty best-friend triangle) has been writing a blog for a little over a year (I think), and she does a fabulous job.  (Shameless plug for her blog - http://www.anothertenmiles.blogspot.com/)  Combine her sense of humor with topics that are actually interesting, and it's a win-win for everyone!  I suppose my decision to join the blogging world is sort of a cross between her "inspiration" and sheer competition to see if I can be as good as her.  I can pretty much answer that question right now, but hey, I'll give it my best shot! 

So, I'm a brand-spanking new mommy - okay, I guess I do have 2 months under my belt - and I'll just admit that, no matter how much experience I had with kids before (essentially my entire life!), I know absolutely nothing about being a parent.  It's quite different from what I imagined during those 9 (um, really 10) months of dreaming about my sweet little angel.  Of course, she is a little angel, even at midnight, 2 a.m., 4 a.m., and 5 a.m.  They should have a pre-pregnancy class that teaches potential parents to deal with little-to-no sleep, no money, screaming/crying, projectile vomit, and a miniature roommate who constantly needs something .  Oh wait - that almost sounds like college dorm life (hehe).  Seriously though, I am super excited about my baby girl and I love, love, LOVE waking up to her cries every day.  It means that I have a purpose.  I have this little person that God entrusted to me, and I am responsible for her precious life every single day.  I can't wait to watch her grow and change into a little lady - to see what she achieves and aspires to in her life. 

And with that said, she is aspiring after my attention and a bottle as we speak.  Til next time......